You're sexy and you know it.
But then there are those days when you're rockin' the granny panties. You're bloated. Nothing fits right, and you look in the mirror and think, ugh!
Sexy? Not so much.
Few people feel sexy all the time, but feeling sexy and believing we're sexy closes the deal. If you think you're sexy, and you feel sexy, you are sexy. End of story. Own it.
If you have ever seen the movie, Eat, Pray, Love, you must remember this scene...
Elizabeth is spot on. Why are we worried about how something looks, or whether it jiggles? Shouldn't we focus more on how something feels, how to mix up the routine, and how to bring new levels of pleasure to ourselves and our partner?
As a woman with more years of self doubt than I care to admit, I know that old habits die hard. But as a wife, if I cannot trust that this amazing man, who chose me as his life partner, his wife and lover, to love me and my imperfections, then I have a bigger problem than anything that could look funny or jiggle in the wrong way.
Get yourself some pretty things, or nothing at all, and rock your inner sex goddess.
Think sexy, be sexy. And have fun!
What do you think? Is sexiness mind over matter?